
Belonging
Regular blog entries written by Director of Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging, Leslie Sinsay.

How Affinity Groups Support Your Children Socially and Academically
By DEIB Director Leslie Sinsay
A misconception exists that affinity groups create separatism in a school environment. In reality, they have the opposite effect. While participating in an affinity group, students work toward a deeper sense of their own identity. Group members are then able to use that feeling and understanding of their identity/culture as a tool to make connections with others. Harnessing that knowledge about themselves gives them the ability to be more inclusive, curious, kind, and ultimately an upstander for others.
Given the evidence from years of research conducted by noted universities and independent groups, such as the National Association of Independent Schools, schools understand that affinity group membership positively contributes to a child’s developing identity. It strengthens their relationships with others and supports their learning experiences in the classroom. Affinity spaces have become a typical part of school life across the country.
An affinity group gives students with shared experiences a safe and brave space to connect with others who share a part of their identity. At Capitol Hill Day School, affinity groups are facilitated by an educator who shares the same identity and gives children another trusted adult at school. Educators understand that children having a feeling of being connected promotes risk-taking in the classroom which fosters learning.
How did we begin this journey into the world of affinity spaces at Capitol Hill Day School? At the request of students in 2019, the first affinity group, the Black Student Union (BSU), was formed. Since then our affinity groups have developed with intention and purpose, with teacher and student input, into a full program. We now have an additional ten groups, some race-based, others based on gender and neurodiversity. This year affinity group facilitators presented at an affinity group fair. Facilitators introduced their group to the Upper Grade student body. With this information, students made informed decisions about groups that resonated with their developing identities.
What are the benefits of affinity groups to a child’s developing identity?
- An additional safe space for students to share and explore their developing identity awareness.
- A platform for developing camaraderie with students and teachers who share an aspect of their identity.
- A stronger feeling of belonging as students connect with other affinity group members.
- A sense of empowerment that they exhibit in the classroom and other areas of the school
- An appreciation of the complexities of their culture leading to an understanding that complexities exist in all cultures.
How do experiences in affinity groups indirectly translate into supporting academics in the classroom?
- Working in affinity groups develops leadership skills. Facilitators request that students generate ideas, think critically about issues, and make plans for solutions.
- Listening to other students’ stories, which often happens in affinity groups, builds perspective-taking skills, an important element in critical thinking and analysis.
- Increasing the ability of students to be advocates and self-starters in the classroom.
- Creating a safe space and a sense of belonging, a feeling that students take into the classroom and become risk-takers in learning.
- Participating service work which requires planning and execution of a project and seeing it to completion.
By providing a space for students to explore and to become more cognizant of their own identities and abilities, we empower them to move forward into the future with a positive and strong sense of self. They take these skills and use them to work positively with and understand others.
We invite you to attend a presentation by Rosetta Lee on how cultural relevance supports academics and the overall development of students. Mark your calendar for Thursday, November 21st from 6:30-7:45 p.m. Rosetta has presented at Capitol Hill Day School on several occasions working with Upper Grade students, staff, and families. During our time with her, Rosetta will speak to the elements of a culturally responsive pedagogy and how those aspects support an environment of thoughtful academics. Click here to RSVP, a Zoom link will be sent to attendees closer to the event date. We hope to see you there.
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